The emotion of love is in its basic form a selfish emotion. Most men experience this emotion and act on it only to maintain their own happiness. For that matter , so does most women. Very few people truly know what true love is. How do you know? Just answer the following questions and if any of the answers are YES, you need to look at what your life is really about.
1. Is it your right to be loved back?
2. Is sacrifices from your partner sometimes expected?
3. Is it your right to have demands?
4. Do you need to be put first in everything to feel loved?
5. Are you unwilling to to be rejected even if it means happiness for your partner?
Personally, I feel that if both partners could live their relationship with all the abovementioned answers being NO, both partners will receive exactly what they need to keep each other happpy.
Your partner does not need to find the love in you,and vice versa.
It will just be there for you. Being loved is less work than loving somebody. Being loved is the best way to love.
Try it, you might be surprised.
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